I met with a young woman this week who wanted to introduce herself to the minister. I said I was really glad that she made the appointment. She said, "It's the first time I ever did that!" She said she needed God, so as to give her life wholeness and stability. And she needed to forgive herself. After hearing her story, I said that she needed forgiveness from God (not herself), and she needed to surrender her life to Him. She said, "I'm not ready for that."