For the first time in my life, this year, I sued someone. I am very wary of such action -- one reason being that it may bring dangerous and unpredictable forces into play, which distract from ministry. I also find myself rethinking the faith perspective again and again. Today I sent my (Christian) attorney a note. Should I make another attempt at an amicable settlement? The subject line in her reply said it all: "Re: SUPPING WITH THE DEVIL." And the message: "Is it possible to negotiate with a liar, fraudster and thief? ... We have obtained judgement already. We are now in the process of executing that judgement. ... Blessings."
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Theft Of Rump Steak
I confess to the theft of a rump steak. I walked into a large function late, and there were just two kebabs left, and two … what looked to me to be chops. I plunged my fork into one of the chops, and took it. I did think it was the finest chop I had ever had. Not long after, one of the guests said, “What happened to my other rump steak?”
Labels: Personal/Ministry
Miracle Of Survival
Labels: How We Do It
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Carols By Candlelight
Labels: Church Services
Congregationalism
In my early years as Congregational minister, I was continually frustrated by Congregational Church government (which is "direct democracy under Christ"). Either one could not achieve what one wanted, or it was a very tedious process. However, I don't feel that way any more. If a goal is not a spiritual one, then it is not worth pursuing -- one can discard it. And if it is spiritual, then it comes to be through the movement of the Holy Spirit on the whole congregation -- or it is not spiritual. The challenge of Congregationalism, therefore, is to encourage spiritual growth throughout the Church through the Holy Spirit. This is a never-ending process, and also a joy to see. OBSERVATION: I understand that this requires a definition of "spiritual".
Labels: How We Do It, Theology/Issues
Signs Of Grace
In general, I do not think that God panders to quirky requests for personal answers. He has other ways of working. But sometimes, just sometimes, I think He gives people special signs of grace at critical times. This morning a refugee, a husband and a family man, shared with me how, in the midst of his family's great hardships and struggle to survive, his boss had launched into an irrational tirade at him. He prayed, "Lord, if you are still with my family, please give me a sign. May my boss call me before 9 p.m. tonight, and apologise." A boss -- in this case a very wealthy boss -- calling a refugee to apologise? However, just before 9 p.m., the boss called and apologised.
Labels: Supernatural
Youth Control
Labels: People/Friends
Friday, December 4, 2009
amatomu.com Lives
South African bloggers in particular might be interested to note that amatomu.com ("the South African blogosphere, sorted") has come back to life after a long absence. The statistics, on its second day, are way off kilter, but will presumably settle down soon. Foreign readers would surely find AMATOMU :: Religion an interesting page to follow.
Labels: Data/Details
Justice Delayed
One should have a durable sense of humour in South Africa. Having said this, a case which lies at the Mowbray police station, case no. 15/9/2009, documents how a company forged my signature on three separate forms for financial gain. Since the case was opened more than three months ago, it has twice been transferred, and two investigators in succession have been taken off the case. Today, wife M. chased up the case on my behalf -- or tried to -- after many previous attempts to obtain a status report. When finally the official investigator, Det. Kleinhans, was tracked down, he had no knowledge of the case. Then he said, as did his predecessor Det. Hanse, that their superior, Capt. Westrat, was not issuing instruction in this case. OBSERVATION: In the meantime, the City of Cape Town (this week) annulled all the forms on the grounds of fraud -- yet the police have got about nowhere. This isn't the only criminal charge which is languishing, against the company concerned, while presumably it continues to use its criminal methods.
Labels: Personal/Ministry, Suburb/Society
CD Release
Labels: Good Things
Great Karoo In 3-D
Labels: Good Things
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Sexuality And Office
A woman was nominated for office in our Church -- however, a few people expressed concerns surrounding her sexuality. It was necessary for me as minister to tackle this directly -- which I did, together with a Church elder. I said that we were thankful for her good heart and willingness to serve, yet needed to discuss her faith, conduct, and past service in the Church. I pressed a little, as I sensed that we were missing something. She then said that she was seriously contemplating a lesbian relationship. I said that any single person needs to be chaste in order to accept office in the Church. I touched on a few reasons for this, and our past experience in the Church. Our elder was more forthright than I was, and told her firmly yet kindly to renounce her lusts and to trust God's power to rescue her from Satan. OBSERVATION: This is a very abbreviated account. The nominee came to me afterwards, privately, and thanked me for having dealt with the matter "sensitively".
Labels: How We Do It
How My Day Began
I've rewritten this post. In the midst of a busy start to the day, I simply posted about my busy start to the day, as I was too busy to give any thought to a post. The intention today was to apply myself to my Sunday sermon, which all came to naught as myriad unplanned things popped up on my schedule -- including calls re someone overdosing and a critical illness. But it all didn't seem worthy of a post. So finally, I am writing a post about why my original post was not worthy of a post.
Labels: Church Life, Personal/Ministry
Viral Thesis
My MTh thesis, since it received the (very) final OK last month, would appear to have gone viral -- if one defines viral as many more copies in circulation than the author has put out. A friend, who is in Christian leadership development, wrote to me: "The vice president of a Christian university was very favorable. He feels that you may have identified what is wrong with leadership development in the US evangelical church." OBSERVATION: In fact my thesis has found its way to several (vice) presidents and deans, to my knowledge. See Distress In Ministry for a little on the thesis. Feel free to request a copy from me at scarboro@iafrica.com.
Labels: Personal/Ministry
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Emotional Outburst
Labels: Suburb/Society

