Urban Ministry Live And Unplugged
A Window On Urban Ministry In Southern Africa
Monday, February 9, 2026
Counselees Who Are Drunk?
Sunday, February 8, 2026
Recurring Fevers
Early Schooling
For the first three years of my schooling, and for much of my fourth, I did not go to school -- I was home schooled. For the most part, I was on distant islands, surrounded only by Micronesian children -- the one exception being my sister. Finally, I spent a few months in a mixed English-Micronesian school on Tarawa, then a brief period at school in the UK. Then, my new life of schooling began in South Africa, in Grade 4. Immediately I was plunged into a group of White boys. They looked at me, and I was like them. I looked at them, and they were not like me. OBSERVATION: The teacher asked us what instrument we use to navigate. I said, the coconut cup. This led to a great commotion in the class. (The compass, incidentally, is less accurate).
Saturday, February 7, 2026
Progressively Institutionalised
Friday, February 6, 2026
Attempt Laws
Things Are Really Going
Thursday, February 5, 2026
‘She's Got Issues’
Wednesday, February 4, 2026
SHARE Magazine
Tuesday, February 3, 2026
Advice From ‘a Six-Year-Old Child’
Monday, February 2, 2026
Youth Group
African Wedding
• LOBOLA: Of course, lobola. Translated, the bride price -- yet it is far more than that. In my experience, one receives most if not all of the lobola back, through generosity.• INVITES: We had to accommodate limitless people somehow. This is African tradition.• RETINUE: We deliberately went "European" here, with a modest retinue. African retinues may be large.• ORGANIST: We didn't have one. We had traditional African singing (and African dress, for decoration).• AFTER-CELEBRATION: Much of this was provided as a gift, by African tradition. In fact, half of the "European" reception was a gift.• HONEYMOON: Originally, my new wife would mourn her parting from the family. However, we ultimately went "European", going on honeymoon soon after the wedding.• TOTAL COST: This was greatly reduced, compared to the cost of a European wedding, mainly because the African family was deeply involved, and "I am because we are."






